Love and Hate for God’s Sake: Revisiting the Doctrine of al-Walaʾ wal-Baraʾ
Reconciling devotion to God with compassion for others lies at the heart of al-walā’ wal-barā’—a test that defines true faith today.
Published: November 7, 2025 • Updated: November 10, 2025
Author: Dr. Hatem al-Haj
بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ
In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
Key takeaways
The Islamic doctrine of al-walaʾ wal-baraʾ, often translated as loyalty and disavowal, express the Qur’anic ethic of aligning one’s attachments with what pleases Allah. Al-walaʾ denotes closeness, support, and love. Al-baraʾ means distancing oneself from what is false or harmful, without implying harm towards it.
The concept of al-walaʾ wal-baraʾ, in its original iteration, makes piety the primary object of the believer’s loyalty—not race, ethnicity, kinship, nationality, language, class, or politics. It calls believers to shape their loyalties and aversions around divine values. The Prophet ﷺ said, “Whoever loves for Allah, hates for Allah, gives for Allah, and withholds for Allah has perfected their faith.” (Sunan Abī Dāwūd, no. 4681)
Religious ‘hatred’ in Islam is a nuanced concept that doesn’t conform to the ideological binaries of secular morality and society. Al-walaʾ wal-baraʾ entails worshiping Allah by loving what He loves to varying, non-exclusive degrees, and hating what He hates to varying, non-exclusive degrees. We love one another in proportion to the good we exhibit and hate one another in proportion to the evil we exhibit. In this sense, love and hate are able to coexist.
How should al-walaʾ wal-baraʾ be defined?
You will not find a people who believe in Allah and the Last Day having affection for those who [viciously]
oppose Allah and His Messenger, even if they were their fathers or their sons or their brothers or their kindred.
O you who have believed, do not take as allies those who have taken your religion in ridicule and amusement among the ones who were given the Scripture before you, nor the disbelievers. And fear Allah, if you should [truly] be believers.
O humankind, indeed We have created you from male and female and made you peoples and tribes that you may know one another. Indeed, the most noble of you in the sight of Allah is the most righteous of you. Indeed, Allah is Knowing and Acquainted.
Is the concept of al-walaʾ wal-baraʾ exclusive to Islam?
And ye shall not walk in the manners of the nation, which I cast out before you: for they committed all these things, and therefore I abhorred them.
The foolish shall not stand in thy sight: thou hatest all workers of iniquity.
All their wickedness is in Gilgal: for there I hated them: for the wickedness of their doings I will drive them out of mine house, I will love them no more: all their princes are revolters.
If we tell the unbelievers that God intimately loves them, repentance is not needed, as God loves them anyway! But they say, “God loves the sinners but hates the sin.” If Jesus died for every single individual, then why is it that many are going to hell? Why is that the death of Jesus cannot save everyone in hell? Did he fail his mission, or did he come to save his people from their sins? (Matt. 1:21)
John 3:36 [says:] He that believeth in the Son hath everlasting life: and he that believeth not the Son shall not see life; but the wrath of God abideth on him… Some say, God loves the sinner but hates the sin. It does not say that in scripture, but the scripture says just the opposite. Ps. 7:11 [says:] God judgeth the righteous, and God is angry with the wicked every day.
How can hate be sanctioned by a benevolent God?
The Sharia is based on wisdom and the pursuit of the welfare of humanity, in both this fleeting life and in the life to come. It is entirely just, wise, beneficial, and merciful. Anything that veers from justice to injustice, from mercy to its opposite, from wisdom to foolishness, and from the welfare of humanity to its harm, is not part of the Sharia, even if it has been included therein by misinterpretation.
The performance of commandments arises from the power of will, desire, and love, and the avoidance of prohibitions arises from the power of hate, anger, and aversion. Ordaining good is based on love and inclination, and forbidding evil is based on hate and dislike. So is the encouragement of good and discouragement of evil. People get dissuaded from [carrying out] oppression by the deterring power of anger [of the oppressed]; thereby, justice and equity are established in order and distribution.
Should we hate the sin but love the sinner?
And if they disobey you, then say, “Indeed, I am disassociated from what you are doing.”
And if they deny you [O Muhammad], then say, “For me are my deeds and for you are your deeds. You are disassociated from what I do, and I am disassociated from what you do.”
I was passing through some cities, and I saw two people among the ascetics who travel through the land. One of them said to the other, “O brother, what did the people who love Allah inherit from their Beloved?” The other said, “They inherited insight from the light of Allah the Exalted and empathy for those who disobey Him.” I said, “How can he have empathy for people who oppose their beloved?” He looked at me and said, “He abhorred their [sinful] deeds and had empathy for them that through admonition they may abandon their [sinful] deeds, and he felt empathy that their bodies might be burned in Hellfire. The believer is not truly a believer until he loves for people what he loves for himself.”
Can a Muslim truly love a non-Muslim?
أَحْسِنْ إلى النَّاسِ تَسْتَعبِدْ قلوبَهم فطالما استعبدَ الإنسانَ إِحسانُ
Be kind to people, and you’ll find their heart’s captivity has ensued. For with the shackles of kindness, humanity’s spirit has always been subdued.
How can human prejudices affect our interpretation of al-walaʾ wal-baraʾ?
Al-Wala’ Wal Bara’ (al-Qaeda’s View): Al-Qaeda fosters an atmosphere of “us versus them” using the term Al-Wala’ Wal-Bara’. Al-Wala’ means “those to whom they are loyal” or simply, “their friends.” Al-Bara’ refers to those whom they hate or their enemies. This concept becomes their tool to categorize people into friends and enemies. Those they hate are the enemy and those they like, or agree with, are their friends. Their enemies are non-Muslims and many Muslims as well.
Al-Wala’ Wal Bara’ (Islamic Scholars’ View): There is not, nor should there be, an “us versus them” mentality in either [sic] Islam or in humanity. All human beings are creatures of God and we therefore must show respect to each other. This implies a multi-racial, multi-religious society. Islam must be seen as a rahmah (blessing) to the universe.
I was once among a group of the tabiʿin (lit. successors: second-generation Muslims) which included Abu al-Bakhtari, Maysara, Abu Salih, Ḍaḥḥāk al-Mishraqī, and Bukayr al-Ṭāʾī, and they agreed that irjāʾ is an innovation, walāya is an innovation, barāʾa is an innovation, and shahāda
is an innovation.
How have colonialism, conflict, and Zionism affected interfaith perceptions of the “other”?
I had personally witnessed an ultra-religious Jew refuse to allow his phone to be used on the Sabbath in order to call an ambulance for a non-Jew who happened to have collapsed in his Jerusalem neighborhood. Instead of simply publishing the incident in the press, I asked for a meeting with the members of the Rabbinical Court of Jerusalem, which is composed of rabbis nominated by the State of Israel. I asked them whether such behavior was consistent with their interpretation of the Jewish religion. They answered that the Jew in question had behaved correctly, indeed piously, and backed their statement by referring me to a passage in an authoritative compendium of Talmudic laws, written in this century.
O you who have believed, upon you is [responsibility for] yourselves. Those who have gone astray will not harm you when you have been guided. To Allah is your return all together; then He will inform you of what you used to do.
And whatever strikes you of disaster—it is for what your hands have earned; but He pardons much.
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