What Real Masculinity Looks Like | Snapshots with Imam Tom Facchine

Islam Isn’t Just Therapy | Snapshots with Imam Tom Facchine

Is This Da’wah or Entertainment? | Snapshots with Imam Tom Facchine

Representation Isn’t Working. Here’s Why. | Focal Point with Imam Tom Facchine

How to Stop Chasing Validation | Snapshots with Imam Tom Facchine

What Activism Is Missing Today | Snapshots with Imam Tom Facchine

How Colonialism Hijacked the Muslim World | Focal Point with Imam Tom Facchine

Divine Decree

Why the Islamic Calendar Matters | Snapshots with Imam Tom Facchine

How Islam Completed what Christianity Began | Imam Tom Facchine

The Multi-Million Dollar War on Islam | Focal Point with Imam Tom Facchine

Hajj is the Great Equalizer | Imam Tom Facchine

Malcolm X's Legacy We Forgot About | Imam Tom Weekly

How Music Impacts Your Brain | Imam Tom Weekly

Debunking the 'Islamic Dilemma' | Imam Tom Weekly

The Ummah or the Nation? | Imam Tom Weekly

How Islamic History Was Frozen and Forgotten | Imam Tom Weekly

The Secret Cost of Individualism | Imam Tom Weekly

The Dark Truth About Secularism | Imam Tom Weekly

Muslims Are a People of Principle | Imam Tom Weekly

When Did Ramadan Become a Festival | Imam Tom Weekly

Why Don't Muslims Just Leave? | Imam Tom Weekly

Will Celebrity Muslims Save Us? | Imam Tom Weekly

Trump Wants to Take Over Gaza | Imam Tom Weekly

Doomscrolling is Rewiring Your Brain | Imam Tom Weekly

The Islamic Cure for Overconsumption | Imam Tom Weekly

What Does Trump's Second Term Mean for Muslims? | Imam Tom Weekly

Why Reps Matter More than Time | Imam Tom Weekly

Surah Al-Masad & Atomic Habits | Imam Tom Weekly

Surah Al-Ikhlas & Atomic Habits | Imam Tom Weekly

Why You Can't Resist Cravings (and How to Take Back Control) | Atomic Habits | Imam Tom Weekly

Surah An-Nas & Atomic Habits | Imam Tom Weekly

Atomic Habits: Why Most Quit Early | Imam Tom Weekly

Surah Al-Kawthar & Atomic Habits | Imam Tom Live

Allah Will Ask: What Did You Do With Your Freedom? | Imam Tom Live

Oct 7th Changed Everything | Imam Tom Live

All Praise Be to Allah in Every Situation | Imam Tom Live

Muslim Votes Swing 2024 | Imam Tom Live

Remembering Aysenur's Courage | Imam Tom Live

Empowering Student Activism | Imam Tom Live

Hypocrisy at the DNC | Imam Tom Live

Falsehood is Bound to Vanish | Imam Tom Live

No Limits: Israel’s Growing Atrocities and Global Indifference | Imam Tom Live

What France & UK's Electoral results mean for Muslims | Imam Tom Live

The Real Guise of 'Islamophobia' | Imam Tom Live

Muslim Influencers Profiting from Apartheid | Imam Tom Live

Israel's Ceasefire Rejection, Nurse Fired for Gaza, and the Law of Sacrifice | Imam Tom Live

Do Influencers Owe their Followers Advocacy? | Imam Tom Live

University Raids, Fake Negotiations, Holocaust Remembrance? | Imam Tom Live

Live Revolution: The West Rallies for Gaza | Imam Tom Live

Biryani Diplomacy: The Illusion of Political Influence & the "Flour Massacre" | Imam Tom Live

Unveiling Truths: Aaron Bushnell, NYT's Agenda, & Stopping Military Aid to Israel | Imam Tom Live

What Will Ramadan be Like in Rafah? A Conversation About Sha'aban and Leadership | Imam Tom Live

Israel Bombs Rafah During Superbowl, that Biden Tweet, and Constructive Conversations | Imam Tom Live

The Lives of Imams, Hate Crime in Texas, Israeli Humiliation, Ceasefire Resolutions | Imam Tom Live

Musk's Take, Columbia's Skunk Surprise, Islamic Unity, and India's Ram Revelation | Imam Tom Live

Michigan Mosques Say NO! | Imam Tom Live

Does Protesting Work? | Imam Tom Live

How to Develop Better Habits | Imam Tom Live

How To Become A Strong Muslim Leader | Imam Tom Live

Courage in the Face of Israeli Censorship | Imam Tom Live

On the Gaza Ceasefire | Imam Tom Live

How to Fight the Israeli Backlash | Imam Tom Live

Israel is Losing - and They Know It | Imam Tom Live

What Real Masculinity Looks Like | Snapshots with Imam Tom Facchine

November 19, 2025 • Tom Facchine

As many men gravitate toward “performative masculinity” with matcha lattes and gym-bro culture trending, masculinity is losing its genuine essence.

But Prophet Muhammad ﷺ showed what real, balanced masculinity looks like: strength without ego and gentleness without weakness. Imam Tom explores how to move beyond labels and embody a timeless example of authentic manhood.

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What Real Masculinity Looks Like | Snapshots with Imam Tom Facchine

What Islam Reveals About Socialism and Capitalism | Focal Point with Imam Tom Facchine

Kings Chased Thrones. He ﷺ Chased This Instead | Snapshots with Imam Tom Facchine

Why You Can’t Escape Organized Religion | Snapshots with Imam Tom Facchine

Why Some Scholars Critique Resistance | Focal Point with Imam Tom Facchine

Columbus Wasn't Just After Gold – He Wanted Jerusalem | Focal Point with Imam Tom Facchine

How to Stop Falling for Fake Mahdis | Snapshots with Imam Tom Facchine

How Should We View Gaza’s Celebrity Support? | Snapshots with Imam Tom Facchine

Living Up to the Prophet’s ﷺ Final Speech | Snapshots with Imam Tom Facchine

Israel’s Link to U.S. Anti-Terror Policy | Focal Point with Imam Tom Facchine

Will Recognition Help Palestine? | Snapshots by Imam Tom Facchine

Modesty Is More Than What You Wear | Snapshots with Imam Tom Facchine

How Your Victim Mindset is Destroying You | Snapshots with Imam Tom Facchine

The Hidden Bias in Every History Book | Focal Point with Imam Tom Facchine

Islam Isn’t Just Therapy | Snapshots with Imam Tom Facchine

Is This Da’wah or Entertainment? | Snapshots with Imam Tom Facchine

Representation Isn’t Working. Here’s Why. | Focal Point with Imam Tom Facchine

How to Stop Chasing Validation | Snapshots with Imam Tom Facchine

What Activism Is Missing Today | Snapshots with Imam Tom Facchine

How Colonialism Hijacked the Muslim World | Focal Point with Imam Tom Facchine

Divine Decree

Why the Islamic Calendar Matters | Snapshots with Imam Tom Facchine

How Islam Completed what Christianity Began | Imam Tom Facchine

The Multi-Million Dollar War on Islam | Focal Point with Imam Tom Facchine

Hajj is the Great Equalizer | Imam Tom Facchine

Malcolm X's Legacy We Forgot About | Imam Tom Weekly

How Music Impacts Your Brain | Imam Tom Weekly

Debunking the 'Islamic Dilemma' | Imam Tom Weekly

The Ummah or the Nation? | Imam Tom Weekly

How Islamic History Was Frozen and Forgotten | Imam Tom Weekly

The Secret Cost of Individualism | Imam Tom Weekly

The Dark Truth About Secularism | Imam Tom Weekly

Muslims Are a People of Principle | Imam Tom Weekly

When Did Ramadan Become a Festival | Imam Tom Weekly

Why Don't Muslims Just Leave? | Imam Tom Weekly

Will Celebrity Muslims Save Us? | Imam Tom Weekly

Trump Wants to Take Over Gaza | Imam Tom Weekly

Doomscrolling is Rewiring Your Brain | Imam Tom Weekly

The Islamic Cure for Overconsumption | Imam Tom Weekly

What Does Trump's Second Term Mean for Muslims? | Imam Tom Weekly

Why Reps Matter More than Time | Imam Tom Weekly

Surah Al-Masad & Atomic Habits | Imam Tom Weekly

Surah Al-Ikhlas & Atomic Habits | Imam Tom Weekly

Why You Can't Resist Cravings (and How to Take Back Control) | Atomic Habits | Imam Tom Weekly

Surah An-Nas & Atomic Habits | Imam Tom Weekly

Atomic Habits: Why Most Quit Early | Imam Tom Weekly

Surah Al-Kawthar & Atomic Habits | Imam Tom Live

Allah Will Ask: What Did You Do With Your Freedom? | Imam Tom Live

Oct 7th Changed Everything | Imam Tom Live

All Praise Be to Allah in Every Situation | Imam Tom Live

Muslim Votes Swing 2024 | Imam Tom Live

Remembering Aysenur's Courage | Imam Tom Live

Empowering Student Activism | Imam Tom Live

Hypocrisy at the DNC | Imam Tom Live

Falsehood is Bound to Vanish | Imam Tom Live

No Limits: Israel’s Growing Atrocities and Global Indifference | Imam Tom Live

What France & UK's Electoral results mean for Muslims | Imam Tom Live

The Real Guise of 'Islamophobia' | Imam Tom Live

Muslim Influencers Profiting from Apartheid | Imam Tom Live

Israel's Ceasefire Rejection, Nurse Fired for Gaza, and the Law of Sacrifice | Imam Tom Live

Do Influencers Owe their Followers Advocacy? | Imam Tom Live

University Raids, Fake Negotiations, Holocaust Remembrance? | Imam Tom Live

Live Revolution: The West Rallies for Gaza | Imam Tom Live

Biryani Diplomacy: The Illusion of Political Influence & the "Flour Massacre" | Imam Tom Live

Unveiling Truths: Aaron Bushnell, NYT's Agenda, & Stopping Military Aid to Israel | Imam Tom Live

What Will Ramadan be Like in Rafah? A Conversation About Sha'aban and Leadership | Imam Tom Live

Israel Bombs Rafah During Superbowl, that Biden Tweet, and Constructive Conversations | Imam Tom Live

The Lives of Imams, Hate Crime in Texas, Israeli Humiliation, Ceasefire Resolutions | Imam Tom Live

Musk's Take, Columbia's Skunk Surprise, Islamic Unity, and India's Ram Revelation | Imam Tom Live

Michigan Mosques Say NO! | Imam Tom Live

Does Protesting Work? | Imam Tom Live

How to Develop Better Habits | Imam Tom Live

How To Become A Strong Muslim Leader | Imam Tom Live

Courage in the Face of Israeli Censorship | Imam Tom Live

On the Gaza Ceasefire | Imam Tom Live

How to Fight the Israeli Backlash | Imam Tom Live